The Explosive Truth: 5 Major Things Brynn Whitfield Did To Spark Her Feud With Ubah Hassan On RHONY
The dramatic conflict between Brynn Whitfield and Ubah Hassan has become one of the most talked-about and complex feuds in the history of The Real Housewives of New York City (RHONY) reboot. What began as minor social friction quickly escalated into a deeply personal and explosive confrontation, culminating in a dramatic season finale that left the entire cast divided and questions about the possibility of reconciliation.
The root of the issue is not a single event, but a series of escalating actions and accusations—from casual "jabs" to deeply sensitive claims—that Ubah felt were a direct attack on her character and business. As of today, December 20, 2025, the two remain estranged, with Ubah Hassan publicly stating that a friendship with Brynn Whitfield is permanently off the table due to the severity of the incidents.
Brynn Whitfield and Ubah Hassan: Complete Biographical Profiles
To understand the intensity of the conflict, it is essential to first know the backgrounds of the two women at the center of the drama. Both are successful New York personalities with distinct career paths that inform their on-screen personas.
Brynn Whitfield: Profile Overview
- Full Name: Brynn Whitfield
- Date of Birth: February 7 or 8, 1988 (Sources vary slightly on the year and day, but she is a late 80s/early 90s baby)
- Hometown/Origin: Beverly Hills, California
- Education: Graduated from Purdue University with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Communications, specializing in Public Relations and Advertising.
- Career: Marketing Communications Consultant and socialite. She has worked with various high-profile clients in the lifestyle and luxury sectors.
- RHONY Role: Known for her flirty, witty, and often controversial commentary, Brynn quickly became a central figure in the RHONY reboot.
Ubah Hassan: Profile Overview
- Full Name: Ubah Ali Hassan (also known as Ubax Xasan in Somali)
- Date of Birth: August 27, 1983
- Hometown/Origin: Somalia (Somali-Canadian nationality)
- Education: Details not widely publicized, but her career began in modeling.
- Career: Renowned international model, businesswoman, and television personality. She has worked with major designers like Ralph Lauren. She is the founder of her own successful hot sauce company, Ubah Hot.
- RHONY Role: Known for her vibrant energy, strong sense of loyalty, and commitment to her business ventures.
1. The Leaky Pigeon Debacle: Spilling a Private Secret
The initial crack in the relationship between Brynn and Ubah stemmed from a breach of trust, which the cast nicknamed the "leaky pigeon" debacle. This event laid the groundwork for Ubah's deep-seated distrust of Brynn.
During a cast trip, Brynn revealed to the group that Ubah was dating a man who lived out of state. While this may seem innocuous, Ubah had only shared this private detail with fellow castmate Sai De Silva. The fact that Brynn was the one who broadcasted the information—and that it was information Ubah had chosen to keep private from the wider group—was seen as a deliberate act of betrayal.
Ubah felt this was a clear example of Brynn's tendency to use personal information for on-screen drama, leading her to brand Brynn a "snake" and the group as "pigeons" in a heated moment. For Ubah, this was the first sign that Brynn was not a trustworthy friend.
2. The "Little Jabs" and Business Insults
Beyond the secret-spilling, Ubah grew increasingly frustrated with what she described as Brynn’s pattern of "little jabs" disguised as jokes. Brynn, often celebrated for her quick wit, frequently made snide remarks about the other women's professional endeavors, which Ubah took as demeaning and disrespectful.
Specific examples of these comments included Brynn referencing Ubah's modeling work for Dress Barn and another cast member's (Rebekkah) involvement with Nordstrom Rack in a dismissive manner. For a self-made businesswoman like Ubah, who takes pride in her accomplishments, these backhanded compliments and subtle put-downs were seen as a toxic attempt to undermine her success and status. This behavior solidified Ubah’s belief that Brynn was a bully who used kindness to mask her mean-spirited intentions.
3. The Explosive Finale Accusation: The Sexual Assault Claim
The conflict reached its peak during the season finale trip to Puerto Rico, revolving around a profoundly sensitive topic: Brynn's history as a sexual assault survivor.
The central accusation that truly broke the relationship was Brynn’s claim that Ubah was aware of her sexual assault history and had somehow dismissed or not "clocked" the severity of the situation. During a highly emotional argument, Brynn told the castmates that she had confided in Ubah, believing Ubah knew the full extent of her past. Ubah, however, vehemently denied this claim, insisting she had no prior knowledge of the specific details Brynn was referencing.
The severity of the situation escalated when Brynn was perceived as using her trauma to deflect from the argument or to manipulate the cast's sympathy. Brynn later attempted to clarify her statement, suggesting Ubah may not have "clocked" or fully understood the information she was given, but the damage was already done. Ubah and other cast members felt Brynn had created a false narrative about Ubah's knowledge, putting her in an incredibly uncomfortable and damaging position.
4. Ubah's Retaliation: The Bravo Executive Accusation
In the heat of the finale argument, Ubah retaliated with a shocking and equally sensitive accusation against Brynn. Ubah suggested that Brynn may have "slept with someone" to secure her spot on The Real Housewives of New York City, implying she may have slept with a Bravo executive or someone in power.
While this was Ubah's own emotional defense mechanism against Brynn's claims, it was seen as a major misstep, especially considering Brynn’s revelation that she is a sexual assault survivor. Ubah's comment was intended to criticize Brynn's perceived ambition and flirtatious nature, but it landed with a much heavier, more damaging impact on a survivor. This accusation became the final, painful blow that confirmed for both women that their friendship was irreparable.
The Aftermath and the Current Status of Their Relationship
The intense confrontation in Puerto Rico left the entire RHONY cast reeling, with many turning on Brynn for what they saw as a pattern of lying and manipulative behavior, particularly concerning the sexual assault claim.
Since the season ended, there has been no reconciliation. Ubah Hassan has been very clear in post-show interviews that the trust is completely broken. She views Brynn's actions—from the initial "leaky pigeon" betrayal to the final, damaging accusation about her knowledge of Brynn’s assault—as a malicious and calculated attempt to sabotage her. While Brynn has expressed regret and even stated that Ubah "has a heart of gold," Ubah remains firm that Brynn’s pattern of behavior is unacceptable for a true friend.
Ultimately, what Brynn did to Ubah was not one single offense, but a consistent pattern of violating trust, making demeaning jokes about her business, and finally, using a deeply personal and sensitive story in a way that Ubah felt was both dishonest and deeply cruel. The fallout from this feud has redefined the cast dynamics and will undoubtedly be a major storyline in any future seasons of The Real Housewives of New York City.
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